Narcissist? Sociopath? Monster? Devil That You Know?

heAteMyHeartDo you know a Cheating Monster?  Perhaps a Narcissist or a Sociopath?

The lyrics to Lady Gaga’s song Monster hit  the descriptive nail right on the head – “that boy is a monster, that boy is a monster, he ate my heart,  … and then he ate my brain.” First he attacks your heart and then he somehow makes you think it was your fault.

Do you know a Cheating Monster?  Perhaps a Narcissist or a Sociopath? It seems there is an Epidemic of Cheating In Progress these days.  Cheating Monsters are men or women who claim they are in committed relationships until they choose to pretend they’re not; and men and women who think that it’s perfectly acceptable to hit on someone else’s guy or girl.

This epidemic knows no class line or culture line. It’s just comprised of a lot of people who think that irresponsible, heartless behavior is somehow acceptable. The symptoms often include being delusional and thinking that good conduct and loyal behavior are only options in a relationship. Those stricken hide behind lies and deceit and they want what they want, and they don’t give a damn how they get it and at whose expense. A perfectly appalling example would be the narcissistic  guy at the table in the restaurant with his phone on his lap, sending text messages to every girl in his contact list while his “girlfriend” sits across the table smiling and trying to make interesting conversation.

Is this an epidemic without a vaccine? What happened to love, concern, good behavior, manners, loyalty, knowing the difference between good and bad, and right and wrong? Has love and concern been replaced with manipulation and disregard? People should treat each other with respect and appreciation not with disregard and ignorance and manipulation. Perhaps the vaccine is for everyone to apply the age old advice of “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”.  In other words don’t do to someone else that which you would not like someone else to do to you!  Here is the Mantra everyone should repeat to themselves often:


There are many versions of Narcissists, Sociopaths, Monsters and the Devil That You Know out there! Here are a few more examples:

  • Women who set their sights on a particular man though they are aware that man is in a committed relationship.  They will do or say whatever they think will get them the guy they want while often acting innocent, sometimes even portraying themselves as a person recently victimized and hurt who deserves to be loved. Even if they’ve been hurt, it doesn’t justify them hurting someone else. They sometimes even disguise themselves as friends of the guys girlfriend to get to talk to the guy. These women are devious pariahs who cannot be trusted. They should learn this Mantra:


  • There are men who think nothing of cheating with several women at one time while they are professing their love to the girl who tops their list who thinks “she’s the one”. They are completely immoral and somehow can justify this by thinking this is all just a big game and that they are entitled to play it because, hey, it’s just a guy thing to run wild and free. They text, and text and text while at the same time they use phone blocking tricks and devious lies to hide their serial cheating games. They send iconic kisses, and make promises and profess undying love to every girl they meet who gives them an interested glance, while telling that one girl that “she’s the one” to be sure to always have a default girlfriend  available at all times, as needed. These guys will, in all likelihood, never be trustworthy.  They should learn this Mantra:


So.  call a monster a monster and protect your heart and be careful who you trust! Let’s be completely realistic about this situation. If your guy or your girlfriend is playing a cheating game and can be so easily pulled away from you, they lack commitment, and loyalty and any of the characteristics that will make them stay in any relationship long term. For whatever the reason, narcissism, untreated emotional problems, addictions, etc., unfortunately, a  player will in all likelihood always be a player.  Even the guy or girl who always ultimately comes back to you every time after they cheat is still a cheating monster – he or she is just the Devil That You Know.

It’s a LOSE – LOSE situation to be a cheater and a liar whether you’re the man or the woman in any of these cheating scenarios. If you recognize YOURSELF in these descriptions you should change your evil ways. If you can’t control your negative behavior seek professional help  before the consequences begin to arrive in your life like a shadow or a ghost that you cannot get away from, because as the Law of Karma dictates  – WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. IT ALWAYS HAS AND IT ALWAYS WILL!  And let me leave you with one final bit of advice, learn and repeat this Mantra often and follow it always.


Kate Woods
“I Aspire To Inspire”

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